Since Wednesday was a holiday I was fortunate enough that Paul was home for the day. In the morning I started to show some signs of pre-labor. Of course my doctor's office was closed because of the holiday so I thought I'd wait and see what happened throughout the day before I bothered my midwife at home. Paul was so great all day entertaining Cooper while I took a nap. My mom was scheduled to fly in on Sunday and I still had some cleaning to do around the house to get ready for her arrival. I decided to start sorting out the baby's clothes and do some laundry so I could put the finishing touches on organizing her room. As I was sitting on the floor in the baby's room I began to notice contractions becoming a little more painful. They were still coming at random intervals about 1/2 hour apart. As I was sorting through the baby clothes Cooper was trying to go down for a nap, which never ended up happening. I decided that my contractions were painful enough that sitting wasn't the best position and I should lie down on the couch with my feet up.
About 5, Paul made burgers and fries for dinner. I tried to eat something but didn't eat much because I was feeling too much pain. Paul convinced me to contact my midwife and let her know what was going on. Kathy suggested I head over to the hospital to get examined just in case. I was so hesitant because I'm not one to 'cry wolf'. I was also worried because we didn't know what we were going to do with Cooper. Would he come to the hospital with us? What if I needed to stay, where would he go? Luckily Paul was so calm through all of this and contacted our neighbor, Rebecca, who was staying at her dad's house for several months. She said she would be happy to watch Cooper and he could stay next door for the night if needed.
About 6:30 I decided it wouldn't hurt to go get examined at the hospital. I know
I wouldn't be the only one who goes to the hospital and then sent home. Paul thought it was better to be on the safe side. So we packed Cooper's bag, just in case, and off to the hospital we went. Looking back on all of this, I am really glad we live less than 2 minutes away from the hospital. When we got there the nurse at the reception desk was checking me in and as I was standing waiting for a room my water broke. Not as scary and dramatic as it seems in the movies. Thank goodness! Cooper noticed my situation and exclaimed "Mommy why are you dripping?" Lol! I never thought I'd hear those word from my son. Paul explained to Cooper that the baby was going to come out of mommy's tummy very soon. He knew that meant he was going to sleep next door at Benecio's house, so he was excited. So, if we lived any further away my water would have broken in the car. I knew that baby girl would not wait until my due date, July 30th, but I didn't expect her to come this soon. On my least favorite holiday, of all days.
Once I was finally in bed and all hooked up Paul took Cooper over to our neighbor's house to get settled in. Cooper was excited to get to watch fireworks that night. I'm glad Cooper was ok staying with Rebecca and Benecio and didn't cry when Paul left him. This made me worry much less about Cooper and I was able to focus more on baby girl.
It was just after 7 when we checked in and within a few short hours Elana Marie was born with only 5 pushes at 10:55. She was 5 lbs 2 oz and 18 inches long. So much easier and faster than the first time. Loving that!
After she was all cleaned up, the nurses said that her temperature was a little low. They ended up putting her under a heat lamp for about an hour. I hated having to wait and hour to hold her. This time I didn't end up throwing up as much afterward like I did with Cooper.
To me she looks so cold. I'm not quite sure how a heat lamp is better than clothes and a blanket, but apparently it is.
So sweet! She
grabbed on to Paul's finger and wouldn't let go. He said it was so
hard not to reach down and pick her up.
It was about 2 a.m by
the time Paul ended up going home and we both tried to get some sleep.
But come on, how much sleep can you really get in those uncomfortable hospital
beds. And not to mention a little infant waking you up wanting to
eat. Oh and I can't forget those pesky nurses who come and wake you up to
check your vitals at 6 a.m. when you just finally fell back a sleep at 5:30!
I'm not sure I was expecting to get much sleep after having a baby but more
than 30 minutes would have been nice.
Around 9:30 Paul
brought Cooper over to the hospital to visit. Boy was he excited to meet
his new sister. He was so cute wanting to hold her. What a good big
brother he's going to be. Hopefully he will still want to hold her once
we bring her home.
After about an hour
or so Cooper became bored being at the hospital. Paul took Cooper home to
play and wait for his mom to come. We called her right before Elana was
born to see if she would be able to come and help out with Cooper until Sunday
when my mom arrived.
I didn't realize that my mom was able to change her flight and come Thursday night. Yay! What a huge help!
Cooper had stayed up the night before watching fireworks until about 10:30. Then the next morning he was awake about 7:30. Poor kid was so tired he fell asleep on the hospital room floor watching TV. Later that evening Cooper went to the airport with Paul to pick up Grammy Rachel.
Grammy Terry stayed with me and Elana at the hospital. She had no problem holding her for the next few hours.
Grammy Rachel finally arrived and was excited to meet Elana.
So far she is very different from Cooper. She sleeps well, 4-5 hours at a time and eats well. She does not fall asleep while eating like Cooper did. Man, was he hard to wake up. I remember it took over an hour to feed him because he kept falling asleep and was hard to wake up. I'm glad I don't have to go through that again.
Cooper wanted to hold Elana again. So cute!
Our first picture as a family of four.
Cooper can't get
enough of holding baby Elana.
Such a sweet boy.
Grammy Terry can't
get enough of baby Elana either.
Daddy finally gets a
turn to hold Elana.
Yay! On Friday we were finally cleared to go home.
Cooper still wanted to hold Elana even when we got home.
What a sweet princess
sleeping.
Sleeping girl trying out the swing. I think she likes it.
What?! Finally awake for more than five minutes.
Cute princess posing for the camera.
A thumb, her new favorite thing to suck on.
Cooper trying to help wake her up. It's not going too well while she's all wrapped up.
And more sleeping in her newly named "princess blanket".
Surprisingly, Elana enjoyed her first bath. She only screamed for a few seconds while we put her in. And no pee or poop anywhere. She saved that for her second bath.
She's already started to figure out how to hold the pacifier with her hand. I think it was a luck that her hand ended up in that position. It didn't last very long, but long enough for dad to take the picture of her.
Little Elana is such a joy to have in our family. We love her so much! I can't wait until she is awake more so we can play and get out of the house more. It's been so hot outside we've had to stay in almost everyday. It's been almost a week since the time I started this blog post and had time to finish it and in between this time Elana has already changed so much. I love all the cute faces she makes her little forehead wrinkles and she movers her lips around, cute and funny all at the same time. She moves around and wiggles so much more, she is getting bigger all the time (now into newborn clothes and out of preemie) and her crying has become more frequent and LOUDER. When she is unhappy she will let you know, especially when she is hungry. Feed me NOW or I will continue to make your ears hurt by screaming at the top of my lungs. Thankfully this doesn't happen all of the time.
My brother Craig was able to come and visit last weekend and my dad will be out to visit the middle of August. Can't wait. My mom is staying until Labor day so she can watch Elana when I have to work for a week and while Paul is gone on a trip. It's still a few weeks away but I'm nervous for the day that I will have Cooper and Elana all to myself for a day. But for now I will not worry about that. I think I hear a little girl starting to wake up. Did I mention how much we LOVE this little girl?!














